The Business Bitch message is this:
You can have what you want if you will just fucking do the things.
Get over yourself, suspend your beliefs if necessary, and just do the damn things the people who’ve been there & done it before you tell you to do. They know what the fuck they’re doing; listen to them.
Stop making whiny excuses about your feelings. (Or hell, keep catering to your whiny feelings if you really want to. Just don’t be surprised & complain when things don’t turn out the way you want as quickly as you want.)
The people who’ve already done what you want to do KNOW what the fuck they’re talking about. THEY HAVE DONE IT. You haven’t. (Yet.) And if they’re offering you their help, chances are they’re not trying to dupe you. 99% of the time, you can trust them.
It’s time to stop getting caught up in your whiny-ass feelings or the “mindset work” that’s just a more PC term for “procrastination.” (Yep, I said it. God damn right I said it.) Don’t buy into that bullshit. You don’t have to. It’s not necessary. Take it from someone (me) who’s spent Y-E-A-R-S catering to her whiny feelings & dumb ass ego at the cost of her success.
I am not gaslighting you about your feelings; in fact I am doing the opposite. I am telling you that you CAN have what you want to have, and you can have it NOW. You don’t have to wait until you’re “ready.” Or until you’ve spent months on end “clearing your limiting beliefs.” You don’t have to keep feeling bad and limited for years on end while you work through your “limiting beliefs about success” while never actually having any success to feel limited around.
I mean, what a crock of shit. Yes, mindset IS important, but if you know you want something, you want it. You can work on your mindset ALONG THE WAY of getting to it, not as a precursor for permission.
You just have to sludge the bullshit & your ego to the side, roll up your sleeves, and do the god damn work on your to-do list. Even if you don’t enjoy it at first.
You’re not gonna get there if you don’t do the fucking work, but you CAN do the work! It’s not that hard! 👉What’s “hard” is sitting your whiny ego to the side and not letting it take over and sabotage you.
Whoever said entrepreneurship isn’t for everyone is a mother fucking liar. Entrepreneurship is for whoever the fuck wants it.
The question isn’t do you ‘have what it takes,’ because YOU DO have what it takes. I promise. The question is if you’ll DO what it takes regardless of your whiny ego.
The girl with one of the whiniest egos in the world 💖
Always remember: impatience is a virtue. 🙏